{"id":765,"date":"2026-09-19T21:55:54","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T17:55:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/?p=765"},"modified":"2026-09-19T21:55:55","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T17:55:55","slug":"herenin-oz-yolu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/herenin-oz-yolu\/","title":{"rendered":"H\u018fR\u018fN\u0130N \u00d6Z YOLU"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fqas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k g\u00f6z\u0259l davran\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Kim\u0259s\u0259 \u0259l uzatmaq insan\u0131n ruhunu parlad\u0131r, k\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131r. Amma k\u00f6m\u0259yin d\u0259 bir h\u0259ddi var. O h\u0259ddi ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259 \u2013 \u00e7ox vaxt f\u0259rqin\u0259 bel\u0259 varmadan \u2013 kimins\u0259 \u00f6z \u00e7iynind\u0259 da\u015f\u0131mal\u0131 oldu\u011fu y\u00fck\u00fc \u00f6z \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrs\u0259n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri onun \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, onun ya\u015famal\u0131 oldu\u011fu t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 etm\u0259k dem\u0259kdir. \u015e\u0259rq d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sind\u0259 buna karma dey\u0259rl\u0259r \u2013 y\u0259ni, insan\u0131n \u00f6z \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259ri v\u0259 se\u00e7iml\u0259rinin n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259si. S\u0259n o n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri onun \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 da\u015f\u0131yanda, \u0259slind\u0259 t\u0259kc\u0259 y\u00fck\u00fc deyil, h\u0259min \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259d\u0259n do\u011facaq d\u0259rsi d\u0259 onun \u0259lind\u0259n al\u0131rsan. Bu i\u015fd\u0259 ustal\u0131q harada ba\u015flama\u011f\u0131 yox, harada dayanma\u011f\u0131 bilm\u0259kd\u0259dir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">ALINMAYAN D\u018fRSL\u018fR<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u018ftraf\u0131na bax. \u0130ll\u0259rdir eyni dair\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 f\u0131rlanan insanlar g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Onu incid\u0259n m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 \u201cbu, son olsun\u201d dedikd\u0259n sonra qay\u0131dan bir dostunu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Eyni s\u0259hvi d\u00f6n\u0259-d\u00f6n\u0259 t\u0259krarlayan yax\u0131n bir adam\u0131n\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 eyni n\u0259tic\u0259 il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdiyi halda he\u00e7 n\u0259yi d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259n birini\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0259n n\u0259sih\u0259t verirs\u0259n, x\u0259b\u0259rdar edirs\u0259n. Onun yerin\u0259 telefonu g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrs\u0259n, problemini h\u0259ll edirs\u0259n, onu d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fc \u00e7uxurdan \u00f6z \u0259ll\u0259rinl\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131rsan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O is\u0259 bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra yen\u0259 h\u0259min yer\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131r. Yen\u0259 eyni m\u00fcnasib\u0259t. Yen\u0259 eyni s\u0259hv. Yen\u0259 eyni n\u0259tic\u0259.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0259n is\u0259 h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 onun h\u0259yat\u0131ndan bir az da yor\u011fun, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n bir par\u00e7a \u0259skilmi\u015f \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rsan.&nbsp;<em>\u00c7\u00fcnki k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259kl\u0259 xilas etm\u0259k eyni \u015fey deyil.<\/em>&nbsp;K\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k insan\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmaqd\u0131r; onun h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 onun \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq \u2013 batmaqda olan birinin ard\u0131nca suya at\u0131lmaqd\u0131r. \u00c7ox vaxt \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259rin\u0259 getdiyimizi \u00e7ox gec anlay\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00c7AY V\u018f DA\u015e<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zen d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sind\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l bir b\u0259nz\u0259tm\u0259 var: \u00e7ay batma\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7mi\u015f da\u015f\u0131 qald\u0131ra bilm\u0259z. Su onun yan\u0131ndan sakitc\u0259 axa bil\u0259r, \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259n a\u015f\u0131b ke\u00e7\u0259 bil\u0259r. Amma \u00f6z axar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fib da\u015f\u0131 zorla \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa, art\u0131q \u00e7ay olmaqdan \u00e7\u0131xar. B\u0259z\u0259n suyun \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259ti da\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011fu yerd\u0259 buraxmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsan m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259dir. S\u0259n bir insana yol g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n, amma o yolu onun yerin\u0259 ged\u0259 bilm\u0259zs\u0259n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00f6z\u00fcn onu oyad\u0131rsa, bu, onun qazanc\u0131d\u0131r. Oyatm\u0131rsa, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 bir n\u0259sih\u0259t daha dem\u0259yin vaxt\u0131 deyil \u2013 geri \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259yin vaxt\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">ANLAMA\u011eIN \u00d6Z VAXTI VAR<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsanlar m\u00fcxt\u0259lifdir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rsini m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k d\u0259rs al\u0131r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259r\u0259k anlay\u0131r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra. B\u0259zil\u0259ri yaln\u0131z itirdikd\u0259n sonra. B\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u0259 var ki, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunad\u0259k eyni d\u0259rsin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00f6y\u00fcb qal\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir m\u00fcsib\u0259t min n\u0259sih\u0259td\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Atalar s\u00f6z\u00fc<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 yollar\u0131n he\u00e7 biri s\u0259n\u0259 aid deyil. S\u0259n o insan\u0131 sev\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n, onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn narahat ola bil\u0259rs\u0259n, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259kd\u0259n arzulaya bil\u0259rs\u0259n &#8211; amma onun d\u0259rsini onun \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259 bilm\u0259zs\u0259n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 qalxmaq ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n adam\u0131 zorla aya\u011fa qald\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma. Yoxsa xilas etm\u0259k ist\u0259diyin \u0259l s\u0259ni d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 dib\u0259 \u00e7\u0259k\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 y\u0131x\u0131lan insan\u0131 qald\u0131rmaq, \u0259slind\u0259 onun \u00f6z ayaqlar\u0131 \u00fcst\u0259 durma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259sin\u0259 mane olmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bunu laqeydlik sanma. \u018fksin\u0259 \u2013 bu, insana g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yin \u0259n d\u0259rin, \u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin h\u00f6rm\u0259tdir: onun se\u00e7imin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259k, \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini da\u015f\u0131mas\u0131na mane olmamaq.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Karma da el\u0259 bir az bununla ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsan \u00f6z se\u00e7iminin n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259n daim qorunduqca, o n\u0259tic\u0259nin ona n\u0259 dem\u0259k ist\u0259diyini he\u00e7 vaxt e\u015fitmir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fcnyaya yaln\u0131z m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t g\u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 baxanda h\u0259r k\u0259s s\u0259n\u0259 xilas edilm\u0259y\u0259 m\u00f6htac g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Amma b\u0259z\u0259n insan\u0131n t\u0259krar-t\u0259krar \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdiyi \u00e7\u0259tinlik t\u0259sad\u00fcf yox, h\u0259l\u0259 e\u015fitm\u0259diyi bir cavabd\u0131r. Onu bu cavabdan qorumaq, \u0259slind\u0259 onu susdurmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, c\u0259za deyil. Bu, h\u0259yat\u0131n \u00f6z s\u0259ssiz qanunudur.&nbsp;<em>S\u0259n ad\u0131n\u0131 \u0259dal\u0259t d\u0259 qoya bil\u0259rs\u0259n.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">HARADA DAYANMALI?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0259z\u0259n insan\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmaq onun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn mane\u0259l\u0259ri aradan qald\u0131rmaq deyil. B\u0259z\u0259n sad\u0259c\u0259 yan\u0131nda dayan\u0131b, n\u00f6vb\u0259ti add\u0131m\u0131 onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn atmas\u0131na imkan verm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kimins\u0259 karmas\u0131ndan geri \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259k onu taleyin quca\u011f\u0131na atmaq deyil. Bu, h\u0259m onun, h\u0259m d\u0259 s\u0259nin \u00f6z yolunuzda yeriy\u0259 bilm\u0259yiniz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259li olan o inc\u0259 s\u0259rh\u0259ddir. S\u0259rh\u0259d olmayan yerd\u0259 is\u0259 n\u0259 s\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn olursan, n\u0259 d\u0259 o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu g\u00fcn bir d\u0259qiq\u0259 dayan v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 bir sual ver: h\u0259yat\u0131mda kim\u0259 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q k\u00f6m\u0259k edir\u0259m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0259lk\u0259 bu d\u0259f\u0259 bir add\u0131m geri \u00e7\u0259kil\u0259s\u0259n. N\u00f6vb\u0259ti y\u00fck\u00fc onun \u00f6z \u00e7iynin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259sin\u0259 imkan ver\u0259s\u0259n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnki b\u0259z\u0259n insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yin \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q \u2013 onun y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc da\u015f\u0131ma\u011f\u0131 dayand\u0131rmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>El\u00e7in \u018fzimli<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ba\u015fqas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k etm\u0259k g\u00f6z\u0259l davran\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Kim\u0259s\u0259 \u0259l uzatmaq insan\u0131n ruhunu parlad\u0131r, k\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131r. Amma k\u00f6m\u0259yin d\u0259 bir h\u0259ddi var. O h\u0259ddi ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259 \u2013 \u00e7ox vaxt f\u0259rqin\u0259 bel\u0259 varmadan \u2013 kimins\u0259 \u00f6z \u00e7iynind\u0259 da\u015f\u0131mal\u0131 oldu\u011fu y\u00fck\u00fc \u00f6z \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrs\u0259n. Ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri onun \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq, onun ya\u015famal\u0131 oldu\u011fu t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 etm\u0259k dem\u0259kdir. \u015e\u0259rq d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sind\u0259 buna [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-765","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-koucinq"],"views":3,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/765","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=765"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/765\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":766,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/765\/revisions\/766"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=765"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=765"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=765"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}