Elvis Presley deyirdi ki, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz barmaq izin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir \u2013 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 bu izi qoyub gedirik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tverici q\u00fcvv\u0259sidir. \u00c7ox vaxt onlar\u0131n f\u0259rqind\u0259 olmasaq da, h\u0259r birimizi h\u0259yatda istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri m\u00f6vcuddur. D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri hans\u0131sa siyah\u0131dan se\u00e7ib h\u0259yata t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259k olmaz. Onlar m\u0259hz biz\u0259 aid olmal\u0131d\u0131r, bizim ruhumuzu, d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc, h\u0259yat f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259mizi t\u0259msil etm\u0259lidir. Ad\u0131nda oldu\u011fu kimi, o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259y\u0259r<\/strong>li olmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, \u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin anlar\u0131m\u0131zda bel\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259 predmetin\u0259 \u00e7evrilm\u0259sin, vazke\u00e7ilm\u0259z olsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r \u2013 kompas kimidir, h\u0259r zaman getm\u0259li oldu\u011fumuz istiqam\u0259ti g\u00f6st\u0259rir. \u00c7\u0259tin anlar\u0131m\u0131zda onlara s\u00f6yk\u0259ndikd\u0259, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r \u00f6z yerini rahatl\u0131\u011fa t\u0259hvil ver\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130nsanlar v\u0259 i\u00e7l\u0259rind\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259r f\u0259rqli oldu\u011fu kimi, sahib olunan d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r d\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lifdir. D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin ad\u0131 din v\u0259 ya f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 kitablar\u0131nda oldu\u011fu kimi t\u0259nt\u0259n\u0259li s\u0259sl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, Sovetskid\u0259 ya\u015fayan g\u0259ncin d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus d\u0259y\u0259ri var: \u201csvoyski\u201d o\u011flan olmaq. H\u0259bsxana h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fayan insanlar\u0131n da \u00f6z d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r sistemi, \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcnl\u00fck v\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259t anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 var. B\u0259li, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r f\u0259rqli ola bil\u0259r, ancaq burada \u0259sas olan odur ki, onlar ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r sistemin\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r verm\u0259sin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r ba\u015fqalar\u0131na h\u0259yat haqq\u0131 tan\u0131maqla, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f rus akademiki Dmitri Lixa\u00e7ov yaz\u0131rd\u0131 ki, d\u00fcnyadak\u0131 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259y\u0259r \u2013 h\u0259yatd\u0131r; ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131, heyvanlar v\u0259 bitkil\u0259r al\u0259minin h\u0259yat\u0131, m\u0259d\u0259ni h\u0259yat v\u0259 s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n U\u011furlu insan olma\u011fa deyil, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 sahib insan olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A.Eyn\u015fteyn<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n H\u0259yat son vaxtlar m\u0259n\u0259 bunu \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r: g\u00fccl\u00fc d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmayan u\u011fur t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259lidir, onunla ehtiyatl\u0131 olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz d\u00fczg\u00fcn olmazsa, h\u0259r n\u0259 yolla olursa olsun, u\u011fura \u00e7atma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015far\u0131q.<\/em> Son se\u00e7kil\u0259r zaman\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r m\u00f6vzusu bir daha \u00f6z aktuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rdi. C\u0259miyy\u0259t ikiy\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fcnd\u00fc \u2013 h\u0259r k\u0259sin h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tind\u0259 sahib oldu\u011fu d\u0259y\u0259rin (b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, d\u0259y\u0259rsizliyin) izi vard\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u0259y\u0259r\u0259 s\u00f6yk\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r, titullar, var-d\u00f6vl\u0259t m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n zaman dilimind\u0259 bizi \u201cxo\u015fb\u0259xt\u201d ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Ancaq, g\u00fccl\u00fc \u015f\u0259xsi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz olmazsa, g\u00fcnl\u0259rin birind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc itir\u0259 bil\u0259rik. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn itdiyi yerd\u0259 is\u0259 sahib oldu\u011fumuz v\u0259zif\u0259nin v\u0259 ya var-d\u00f6vl\u0259tin n\u0259 qiym\u0259ti varki?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Eyn\u015fteyn deyirdi ki, insanlara pe\u015f\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259k kifay\u0259t deyil. Onun vasit\u0259sil\u0259 insan bir n\u00f6v faydal\u0131 ma\u015f\u0131n funksiyas\u0131n\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259c\u0259k, lakin ah\u0259ngl\u0259 inki\u015faf ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t olmacaq. T\u0259l\u0259b\u0259nin d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda anlay\u0131\u015fa sahib olmas\u0131 \u00e7ox vacibdir. O, g\u00f6z\u0259lliyin fiziki v\u0259 \u0259xlaqi m\u0259nas\u0131n\u0131 ayd\u0131n d\u0259rk etm\u0259lidir. O insanlarla v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn m\u00fcasib\u0259t qurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn insan\u0131n var olma motivasiyas\u0131n\u0131, x\u00fclyas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 iztirab\u0131n\u0131 anlama\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u018fzb\u0259r\u00e7iliy\u0259 s\u00f6yk\u0259n\u0259n m\u00f6vcud t\u0259hsil sistemimizin v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f c\u0259miyy\u0259tinin quruculu\u011funda g\u00fccs\u00fczl\u00fcy\u00fc \u2013 \u015f\u0259xsi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin formala\u015fmas\u0131na v\u0259 t\u0259bli\u011fin\u0259 yad davranmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu irad ail\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259si anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131za da aiddir. \u00d6vlad\u0131 b\u0259sl\u0259m\u0259k, geyindirib-gecindirm\u0259k, oxutmaq \u2013 b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar vacibdir. Ancaq, valideynin, eyni zamanda t\u0259hsil sisteminin u\u015faq qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti ona d\u00fczg\u00fcn d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r a\u015f\u0131lamaq olmal\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259rbiy\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259n yoxsun b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015fa\u011fa veril\u0259c\u0259k z\u0259nginliyin v\u0259 biliyin he\u00e7 bir d\u0259y\u0259ri olmayacaq.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sual: B\u0259s sizin d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259riniz n\u0259l\u0259rdir?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n El\u00e7in \u018fzimli<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Elvis Presley deyirdi ki, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz barmaq izin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir \u2013 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 bu izi qoyub gedirik. D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tverici q\u00fcvv\u0259sidir. \u00c7ox vaxt onlar\u0131n f\u0259rqind\u0259 olmasaq da, h\u0259r birimizi h\u0259yatda istiqam\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri m\u00f6vcuddur. D\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri hans\u0131sa siyah\u0131dan se\u00e7ib h\u0259yata t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259k olmaz. Onlar m\u0259hz biz\u0259 aid olmal\u0131d\u0131r, bizim ruhumuzu, d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc, h\u0259yat f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259mizi t\u0259msil etm\u0259lidir. 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