{"id":692,"date":"2026-09-11T11:55:10","date_gmt":"2026-09-11T07:55:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/?p=692"},"modified":"2026-09-13T11:58:00","modified_gmt":"2026-09-13T07:58:00","slug":"reqemsal-obraz-yoxsa-real-kimlik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/reqemsal-obraz-yoxsa-real-kimlik\/","title":{"rendered":"R\u018fQ\u018fMSAL OBRAZ, YOXSA REAL K\u0130ML\u0130K?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00fcasir insan\u0131n&nbsp;<strong>r\u0259q\u0259msal obraz\u0131<\/strong>&nbsp;il\u0259&nbsp;<strong>real kimliyi<\/strong>&nbsp;aras\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ixtilaf d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck psixoloji paradokslar\u0131ndan birini \u2013 \u201cideal m\u0259nlik\u201d il\u0259 \u201creal m\u0259nlik\u201d aras\u0131ndak\u0131 u\u00e7urumu ifad\u0259 edir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">R\u0259q\u0259msal obraz \u00e7ox vaxt ekran\u0131n arxas\u0131nda qurulan, cilalanan v\u0259 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 se\u00e7il\u0259n bir t\u0259qdimat formas\u0131d\u0131r. O, spontan deyil, planl\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil, filtrd\u0259n ke\u00e7mi\u015fdir. B\u0259y\u0259nilm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dizayn olunmu\u015fdur. Bu obrazda s\u0259hvl\u0259r minimuma endirilir, t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcdl\u0259r gizl\u0259dilir, pauzalar silinir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Real kimlik b\u00fct\u00fcn bu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u0259rd\u0259n k\u0259narda, insan\u0131n maskalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131b \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qay\u0131td\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259kanda dayan\u0131r. O, h\u0259r s\u0259h\u0259r g\u00fczg\u00fcd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131xan, sa\u00e7lar\u0131 da\u011f\u0131n\u0131q, makyajs\u0131z, b\u0259z\u0259n yor\u011fun, b\u0259z\u0259n qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q, b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 suallarla dolu hal\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Orada filtrl\u0259r v\u0259 redakt\u0259 yoxdur. Orada \u201cgeri qaytar\u201d d\u00fcym\u0259si i\u015fl\u0259mir. Amma m\u0259hz buna g\u00f6r\u0259 o, canl\u0131d\u0131r, h\u0259qiqidir v\u0259 insana aiddir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">X\u00fcsusil\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 biz sanki \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir vitrin qururuq. Bu vitrind\u0259 u\u011furlar\u0131m\u0131z, d\u00fczg\u00fcn se\u00e7iml\u0259rimiz, ard\u0131c\u0131l inki\u015faf hekay\u0259l\u0259rimiz s\u0259rgil\u0259nir. Mesaj budur: \u201c<em>H\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131ndad\u0131r, h\u0259r \u015fey n\u0259zar\u0259t alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lakin insan\u0131 insan ed\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r \u2013 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259r, yanl\u0131\u015f add\u0131mlar, daxili m\u00fcbariz\u0259l\u0259r \u2013 bu vitrind\u0259 yer tapm\u0131r. Onlar arxa ota\u011fa \u00e7\u0259kilir, \u00f6rt-basd\u0131r edilir. Bel\u0259c\u0259, z\u0259ngin daxili d\u00fcnyam\u0131z b\u0259sitl\u0259\u015fir, sad\u0259 kimliyimiz is\u0259 b\u0259r-b\u0259z\u0259kli bir reklam posterin\u0259 \u00e7evrilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Burada ideal m\u0259n \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Amma bu ideal \u00e7ox vaxt inki\u015faf h\u0259d\u0259fi deyil, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 q\u0259bul olunmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yarad\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir dekorasiyad\u0131r. V\u0259 problem d\u0259 m\u0259hz buradan ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">H\u018fYAT REDAKT\u018f OLUNMUR<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Amma g\u0259lin d\u00fcr\u00fcst olaq. He\u00e7 birimiz donub qalm\u0131\u015f bir \u201cu\u011fur heyk\u0259li\u201d deyilik. H\u0259yat daim h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259td\u0259 olan, s\u0259hvl\u0259ri il\u0259 inki\u015faf ed\u0259n v\u0259 ziddiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 formala\u015fan bir prosesdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">R\u0259q\u0259msal d\u00fcnya biz\u0259 h\u0259r an\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 redakt\u0259 etm\u0259k imkan\u0131 verir: b\u0259y\u0259nilm\u0259y\u0259n c\u00fcml\u0259ni silm\u0259k, z\u0259if g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259fi gizl\u0259tm\u0259k, daha \u201cyax\u015f\u0131\u201d versiyan\u0131 payla\u015fmaq. Bu imkan zamanla bizd\u0259 saxta bir n\u0259zar\u0259t hissi yarad\u0131r \u2013 sanki h\u0259yat da bel\u0259 idar\u0259 oluna bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Amma real h\u0259yat redakt\u0259 olunmur ax\u0131. O, ax\u0131r, dola\u015f\u0131r, b\u0259z\u0259n da\u015f\u0131r. Bu t\u0259bii ax\u0131n r\u0259q\u0259msal m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259llik ill\u00fcziyas\u0131 il\u0259 toqqu\u015fanda, insan\u0131n daxilind\u0259 izah\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tin olan bir g\u0259rginlik yaran\u0131r; \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yet\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259k hissi. Daim \u201cyet\u0259rinc\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 olmamaq\u201d narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu, real m\u0259nl\u0259 ideal obraz aras\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u0259saf\u0259nin yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 daxili yor\u011funluqdur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">YADLA\u015eMA<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ekrandak\u0131 parlaq maska il\u0259 real kimliyimiz aras\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u0259saf\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckc\u0259, biz getdikc\u0259 real \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn deyil, yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00fcni imicin alq\u0131\u015f\u0131na ehtiyac duyuruq. Bu, s\u0259ssiz bir yadla\u015fma, insan\u0131n \u00f6z d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda evind\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 \u00e7evrilm\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>\u0130nsan art\u0131q \u201ckim\u0259m?\u201d sual\u0131n\u0131 deyil, \u201cnec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m?\u201d sual\u0131n\u0131 \u0259sas g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/em>Bu n\u00f6qt\u0259d\u0259 u\u011fur artd\u0131\u011f\u0131 halda, m\u0259n\u0259vi t\u0259mas azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00c7IXI\u015e YOLU N\u018fD\u018fD\u0130R?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu r\u0259q\u0259msal d\u00fcnyadan qa\u00e7maq deyil. \u00c7\u00fcnki r\u0259q\u0259msal m\u00fchit art\u0131q m\u00fcasir h\u0259yat\u0131n ayr\u0131lmaz hiss\u0259sidir. \u018fsas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 texnologiyan\u0131n m\u00f6vcudlu\u011fu deyil, orada hans\u0131 niyy\u0259tl\u0259 m\u00f6vcud olma\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">R\u0259q\u0259msal obraz gizl\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u0259\u015fm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn istifad\u0259 olunduqda d\u0259y\u0259r qazan\u0131r. Y\u0259ni ekran\u0131n arxas\u0131nda qurdu\u011fumuz t\u0259qdimat real kimliyimizl\u0259 ah\u0259ng i\u00e7ind\u0259 olduqda, h\u0259m s\u0259mimi, h\u0259m d\u0259 t\u0259sirli olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>R\u0259q\u0259msal h\u0259yatla real kimlik yaln\u0131z o zaman bar\u0131\u015fa bil\u0259r ki, biz m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmama\u011f\u0131 q\u00fcsur kimi deyil, insan olma\u011f\u0131n \u0259n t\u0259bii v\u0259 \u0259n normal t\u0259r\u0259fi kimi q\u0259bul ed\u0259k.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u00c7ATLAR V\u018f \u0130\u015eIQ<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bizi r\u0259q\u0259msal t\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 salan \u0259sas amill\u0259rin ba\u015f\u0131nda h\u0259r zaman g\u00fccl\u00fc, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131, h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n m\u0259lumatl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259k ist\u0259yi v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 yar\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00f6n\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xma ehtiras\u0131 dayan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unutmayaq: bizi b\u00fct\u00f6v ed\u0259n t\u0259kc\u0259 q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rimiz deyil. O yolda b\u00fcdr\u0259diyimiz anlar, m\u0259\u011flubiyy\u0259tl\u0259rimiz, t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcdl\u0259rimiz v\u0259 daxili m\u00fcbariz\u0259l\u0259rimizdir. Bir a\u011fac\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259ll\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n g\u00f6vd\u0259sinin hamarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yox, ondak\u0131 \u00e7atlar, q\u0131r\u0131\u015flar v\u0259 ill\u0259rin qoydu\u011fu izl\u0259rdir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsan da \u00f6z \u00e7atlar\u0131 il\u0259 daha s\u0259mimi g\u00f6rs\u0259nir. \u00c7\u00fcnki i\u015f\u0131q m\u0259hz o \u00e7atlardan s\u0131z\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">R\u0259q\u0259msal obraz\u0131m\u0131z bu h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 yox, \u0259ks etdirm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131qda h\u0259qiqi d\u0259y\u0259r qazan\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki,&nbsp;<em><strong>s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t h\u0259r zaman \u0259n parlaq filtrd\u0259n daha c\u0259lbedicidir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>El\u00e7in \u018fzimli<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fcasir insan\u0131n&nbsp;r\u0259q\u0259msal obraz\u0131&nbsp;il\u0259&nbsp;real kimliyi&nbsp;aras\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ixtilaf d\u00f6vr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck psixoloji paradokslar\u0131ndan birini \u2013 \u201cideal m\u0259nlik\u201d il\u0259 \u201creal m\u0259nlik\u201d aras\u0131ndak\u0131 u\u00e7urumu ifad\u0259 edir. R\u0259q\u0259msal obraz \u00e7ox vaxt ekran\u0131n arxas\u0131nda qurulan, cilalanan v\u0259 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 se\u00e7il\u0259n bir t\u0259qdimat formas\u0131d\u0131r. O, spontan deyil, planl\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil, filtrd\u0259n ke\u00e7mi\u015fdir. B\u0259y\u0259nilm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dizayn olunmu\u015fdur. Bu obrazda s\u0259hvl\u0259r minimuma endirilir, t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcdl\u0259r gizl\u0259dilir, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-koucinq"],"views":3,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=692"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/692\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":693,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/692\/revisions\/693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/elchinazimli.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}